This is my week. I will
take worship, leading a parish communion service and baptising a child in front
of a packed church. I will liaise with
the musicians, the welcome team and the readers to ensure the service proceeds
like clockwork (which it does, to my slight surprise). I will
light the Pentecost flame, which I have previously ordered, tested and risk
assessed. I will ensure a competent person is in charge of the correct fire
extinguisher and that nobody strays into its path. I will preach the sermon I have written,
after much thought, and the service will include singing words I have composed.
I will be greeter, listener, friend, leader and mentor and perhaps hate figure to some. I will ensure there are copies of the liturgy
in a clear, readable and accessible format, with large-print versions available
for those who need them. I will fill out the Baptism Register and certificates for godparents and the child.
I will attend an evening concert by a visiting choir and
chat over supper afterwards. If you are what you
eat, I am 90% quiche.
I will make the tea and buy the biscuits and lead the bible
study evening at my house, after a quick tidy up.
I will do all the work involved in supporting a family in grief and taking a funeral service.
I will teach the local primary school children about Holy
Communion and present them with new concepts and new ideas about joy and
thanksgiving, explaining some of the many layers of symbolism and the biblical
narrative along the way.
I will visit someone who has not long for this world and offer all the support I can, leaving them with my blessing and my prayers.
I will attend a briefing on schools performance
management. I will handle a baptism
records search, attend the Chapter meeting of local clergy and take communion
to a housebound lady. I will nip to the
stationers to buy posh paper for the service orders and stickers for the
children. I will read the stuff about church politics and I will go through the lectionary identifying worship themes so we can draw up a rota. I will fill in a grant application and answer a pile of emails.
That’s half my working week - I am "only part-time".
The other half is spent in chaplaincy at a local youth offending
institution – demanding ministry indeed which draws on all my priestly skills.
And by the way, I will love and tend my family. Oh, and the socking great Vicarage garden may
get a little attention. And my personal
prayer and meditation will happen – somehow.
All this I do gladly.
I love my job and I have a sense, at last, of vocation fulfilled. I know I burn the candle at both ends, and I
have to manage my stress levels, but it is the most fulfilling work I have ever
done. If I were not called to do this
work, I could not possibly do it. I can do this because I am loved and supported by God, my church and my family.
How can anyone say I shouldn’t be doing this because I am a
woman? Where is the relevance?
How DARE anyone say that we are second-class priests, not
fit to be bishops?
Paul the Apostle did :
ReplyDelete"A Bishop (Overseer/Elder) should be the husband of one wife"...Not the wife of one husband.
That's OK. I'm not married.
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